Today is my birthday!! Ask anyone who knows me and they will tell you that I’m positively OBSESSED with birthdays.

I’ve loved celebrating birthdays for as long as I could remember. Birthdays have always been special because to me, they symbolize a day to celebrate YOU!

To celebrate how fantastic and fabulous you are, all the accomplishments you have made in a year and even more than that to look forward to the year ahead.

Each year, I feel incredibly grateful to have the friends and family that I do who have spent the year (and most a lifetime!) lovin’ me up, I feel grateful for my fabulous hubby who is simply the light of my life and soon to be papa to our little girl…coming this winter.

I also reflect on how lucky I am to live a life that I LOVE. A few years ago, on my 26th birthday, I looked around at my life and I wasn’t so happy with what I saw. I was overworked, exhausted, and ready to take on new chapters in my life. I was in a relationship that didn’t light me up, my social life was the pits and had a job that was just boring.


On my birthday that year, I took that day to reflect on the year and paint a picture of what I wanted in the year ahead. I wanted freedom, excitement, and  a life that I would be stoked to wake up in the morning and tackle.

And so, I did just that. I spent time to create a vision that was authentic to me and what I wanted (really wanted), then I put myself in the driver’s seat and started taking small actions each day to make it happen.

Now, it’s your turn. While I LOVE birthdays, I’m not recommending that you wait until yours comes around to finally make a change. I’m gifting my birthday to you. Use today to look around at what’s working for you, and what’s not working in your life.

What’s ready to shift and change because it’s no longer serving your personal growth?

Now’s the time. Because if you are waiting for one day, someone to come up to you and say, “Bobby you have worked so hard, you get to have the life you imagined.” It isn’t going to happen.

It’s your job (and your gift and privilege) to rescue yourself. I did it and you can too!

And today, let it be your birthday, if you want to bounce off any ideas to me on how to make the switch, give me a shout

I’m off today but will get back to you tomorrow. I can take the day “off”….it’s my birthday!! 🙂


Are you ready to figure out what’s holding you back? I would love to see how I can help. Click here to speak with my team and find out how you can make a shift in your life.